Sexlessly Sensible Conclusions

You have heard our lady B's story in detail i.e. fantasized about magical transformations that would help you make your man much better than he really is without too much effort – just by acting the way he does.

The opportunity to feel what would have happened if you had swapped bodies with your boyfriend for a short period of time let you realize that in order to change the unfair situation you should work hard. Of course, your man may refuse to work hard with you at first due to the fact that working hard on the relationship is an activity which is brand new for his understanding.

However, if you are wise and non-pushy enough, you will reach positive result and will be able to indirectly let him know how hard it is for you to live with a selfish bum (without spelling it out loud of course) and would make your man treat you right.

Now you know that in some ways you should reconsider your position and behaviour in a relationship too. What if there are a few constructive reasons why your man acts the way he does connected with you? Try to think the whole issue over and never get all hysterical or depressive about the issue.

Be wise and calm for only under these circumstances you will be able to realize what stands behind his mistreat and eventually to preserve your relationship and save your man from becoming a total egocentric indifferent waster. There's always a chance to save the situation and to change a person if he has the tiniest desire to improve. Think positive and you will be the champion no matter what, my female friend.