...n' Make the Rules as I Go...

A bad boy is indeed very much into making the rules as he goes. According to the well-known Beautiful opinion, that's because he knows that his kind, gentle, understanding girlfriend will be faithful waiting for him to come home. At least till she starts running out of patience...

That's why such man's rules invariably imply feverish selfishness when he goes. He often can just go without any explanations and choose his company for a night without discussing it with his girl not to mention taking her with him.

He can leave to another state with his friends and call her in a few days to let her know about it – after she has already established connection with all possible institutions to find her lost 'souljah' desperately trying to make the worst thoughts disappear from her head.

If I were a boy, I would make my own rules all the time without asking my lady's permission or advice on the situation when I'm all perfect (that surely doesn't concern spelling or business). Whatever relationship issue it might concern I would strictly and skillfully make my partner follow my directions and restrictions manipulating his (in HER shoes) emotions and consciousness.

I wouldn't do my best to come up with juiciest options for revenge (the key words being still 'constructive education for the purpose of the recovery'), just repeating my perfect man's actions step by step would be enough to vividly explain the fact that the situation is highly unjust.